CHILD INCLUSIVE MEDIATION
Why would our family need child-inclusive mediation?
Do you and the other parent disagree on what parenting time would be in the best interests of your children?
Are your children being impacted by your separation?
Do you want your children’s voices to be heard when you negotiate a parenting plan?
Do you have children with special needs?
Do you have older children with strong views about their parenting arrangements?
If you answer yes to any of these questions, Child Inclusive Mediation may be what your family needs.
What is Child Inclusive Mediation?
Child inclusive mediation is a process to bring your children's voices and needs into the mediation - without them having to be present.
Each parent and the children are interviewed by an experienced Family and Child Consultant, Leanne Bamford, who assesses the children's attachments, needs and views (if appropriate) and provides feedback to the parents and mediator during mediation.
Leanne holds a Bachelor of Social Work. She is a Family Consultant who previously worked for the Family Court of Australia. Leanne is now a private Family Report Writer and has been meeting with children and parents in that role for over 20 years. She is also a Parenting Coordinator trained under the AFCC Guidelines, and a Family Therapist.
Leanne has undertaken mediation training with the College of Law Nationally Accredited Mediator Training Program, and the Children Beyond Dispute Child Inclusive Mediation and Counselling Training Program.
Leanne takes a trauma-informed approach to her work and has presented in Australia and internationally on this topic to lawyers and medical professionals.
Jennifer Hetherington is a Registered Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner and authorised by the Attorney-General’s Department to issue s60I Certificates. She is an Accredited Family Law Specialist and has worked as a family lawyer for over 25 years. She holds a Bachelor of Laws and a Graduate Diploma in Family Dispute Resolution Practice.
Jennifer is a Parenting Coordinator trained under the AFCC Guidelines. She has undertaken hundreds of hours of Mediation and Collaborative Practice training and professional development, and has completed coursework towards a Masters in Dispute Resolution.
Jennifer has presented at many conferences in Australia and internationally about family law, particularly minimising conflict.
What are the benefits of Child Inclusive Mediation?
Child inclusive mediation provides a safe space for your child or teenager to talk about how they are feeling. What upsets them? What do they like about the current parenting arrangements?
The Child Consultant works with your teen or child to ensure they do not feel the burden of having to make a decision about parenting arrangements.
It provides some of the key benefits of a Family Report – without the cost (which can range from $7000 to $18,000).
Does this mean the children get to decide?
No. The goal of child inclusive mediation is to relieve your child or teen of the burden of feeling they have to choose between their parents.
The Child Consultant will use techniques from decades of experience working with separated families, to help your children talk about what is important to them.
However, she will also make it clear that their parents will be making the decision; this discussion is to help their parents decide and they want to make sure their thoughts and feelings are considered.
Will everything my child says be shared with us in the Child Inclusive Mediation?
It’s very important that your teen or child can trust the Child Consultant.
Our Child Consultant, Leanne Bamford, has more than 20 years’ experience interviewing children and families as a family consultant, first with the Family Court and since, in private practice.
She is skilled in interviewing children in an age-appropriate way (which may include play or drawing based activities) and making recommendations for families. An important part of that is gaining the trust of a child that nothing will be disclosed in the child inclusive mediation session about what they said, without their permission.
How old does my child need to be for Child Inclusive Mediation?
Generally, our Child Consultant will interview children aged 5 years and over.
If you have children over 4 and some under, the Child Consultant will usually only interview those aged 4 or over but may conduct observations with parents and the children.
There are some exceptions, which we can discuss with you if you have a younger child.
How much does Child Inclusive Mediation cost?
We don't believe in making you phone or email us to find out our fees. If you are in dispute about parenting arrangements, you don't need more stress.
We don't quote for a Mediation and tell you the Child Consultant will be extra (but not how much).
We are committed to fixed fees and transparency, so you can make a decision. We include the GST, so our pricing is very clear.
A Child Inclusive Mediation Package with up to two children interviewed is $3,492.50 per parent (inc GST - a total of $6,985 inc GST per family).
For each additional child to be interviewed, there is a further $165 per parent (inc GST - total of $330 inc GST per family).
If required, room hire is charged at cost (approx $220 per party). There is no cost for room hire in Brisbane or if Mediation is by video.
What does the Child Inclusive Mediation package include?
- Interviews conducted on a day separate from the day of the Mediation (our experience is that doing it in one day is a lot for a family to manage)
- 2 hours per parent of Preparation sessions with Jennifer Hetherington, Mediator (Registered Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner) and Leanne Bamford (Child Consultant) for each parent
- Interviews with the Child Consultant for children aged 5 years or over (for younger children, there will be observations with parents)
- A feedback session after the Child Consultant has met with the children. If parties are legally represented, lawyers attend, so parties have an opportunity to consider the feedback, obtain legal advice, and consider proposals for the children taking on board the feedback received
- 5 hours of mediation, including both the Mediator and Child Consultant for the duration of the mediation
- A Child Consultant and Mediator (Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner) who are also both trained Parenting Coordinators
- If required, the issue of a s.60I Certificate and Genuine Steps Certificate (but we hope you won’t need this)
Child-Inclusive Mediation is available in Brisbane, Gold Coast, Sunshine Coast, Toowoomba, Sydney, Melbourne, Queenstown and Wanaka, and remotely via Microsoft Teams.
Read our testimonials page to hear from families we have helped.
The calendar is a general guide to availability and can change due to other bookings so please check with us before making a booking.
We may also be able to offer other dates so if none of the dates listed are suitable, please email us info@untyingtheknot.com.au or book a time for us to call you.