Parenting coordination is a process in which a neutral third party helps parents resolve conflicts and make decisions about their children after a divorce. It can be a helpful tool for improving outcomes for children in several ways. Here are the top 4 reasons to consider parenting coordination for your family post-separation or divorce.
1. Parenting coordination helps reduce conflict between parents
Parenting coordination helps parents communicate more effectively and resolve conflicts in a healthy, constructive way. This can create a more stable and less stressful environment for children, which is beneficial for their emotional and psychological development.
2. It promotes cooperation
Parenting coordination can encourage parents to work together and find solutions that are in the best interests of their children. This can lead to a more harmonious co-parenting relationship, which can be beneficial for children as they adjust to life after divorce.
3. Parenting coordination ensures that children’s needs are met
A parenting coordinator can help ensure that children’s physical, emotional, and educational needs are being met by both parents. This can help children feel more secure and supported as they navigate the challenges of post-divorce life.
4. It provides a safe and neutral space for decision-making
Parenting coordination can provide a safe and neutral space for parents to discuss and make decisions about their children. This can help parents feel more comfortable communicating and can encourage more productive discussions.
It’s important to note that in Australia, parenting coordinators are not there to make decisions for parents, but rather to facilitate communication and help parents resolve disagreements. They are trained to help parents understand and manage their emotions, communicate effectively, and develop the skills they need to make decisions that are in the best interests of their children.
A parenting coordinator can provide guidance and support, but ultimately the decision-making power lies with the parents. The role of the parenting coordinator is to empower parents to make their own decisions by providing them with the tools and resources they need to effectively communicate and collaborate.
Overall, parenting coordination can be an effective way to improve outcomes for children after divorce by reducing conflict, promoting cooperation, and ensuring that children’s needs are being met.
To learn more about how a parenting coordinator can help your family, book a free Discovery Call. To appoint a parenting coordinator by court Order, download our sample Parenting Coordination Order.
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